How can I learn to trust my boyfriend again?

We've been dating for almost a year and a half. We started dating a month after I moved here and after I found out I was pregnant with my previous boyfriends baby (who left me when he found out.) We've had a great relationship up until November of 2011. Everything was balanced and we really enjoy each others company very much. He's someone I really connect with and I feel like he feels the same about me. We moved in together in August of 2011 and then in late October I lost my job. I'm in the middle of a child support case so child care isn't covered and things have been difficult because I can't work yet. In early October he got on the site 'omegle.com' without me. The site where 9 out of 10 people go to video chat sexually with others. I found out and asked that even if he's just getting on there to talk to people, that he doesn't do it without me. Well I found out in early December that he'd gotten on the site again in early November but this time he'd chatted with a girl for an HOUR on MY computer while I was sleeping in the next room. I had opened his e-mail to get our acct info to pay the power bill and there was an e-mail to her pulled up. He called her hott and asked that she write him back cause he wanted to talk to her again. I was really hurt and I've had so much trouble trusting him since. Prior to this incident, I trusted him completely which is something I've never been able to do with someone before. Lately, we've been having sex less and I noticed that he's been pleasing himself everyday (sometimes twice) to massive amounts of porn. The porn didn't bother me before but now I'm feeling self conscious. I asked him to try to cut back the porn because it makes me uncomfortable and now he's complaining that I'm telling him he can't masturbate. The thing is, I'm paranoid and I don't trust him and it's tearing our relationship apart. With the money difficulties added in, our relationship is having trouble and I feel so alone because everything I try to talk to him about gets written off to 'my emotions'. How do I proceed? I want to trust him but I don't know how.

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